A reflective space of observations and experiences in life. Writing simply on nature, parenting, minimalism, and questioning the norm.
Yesterday I got properly conned. I still can’t believe it, but here we are. I’ve been avoiding my fundi after we fell out, and since then I’ve been buying clothes online. Honestly, it’s been great so far. Smooth deliveries, good quality, no drama. So when I remembered that my daughter and I don’t have decent […]
There’s a strange thing that happens when we try too hard to be good—it almost always backfires. The more we try to act without greed or fear, the more we notice that our motives are still tangled up in both. We tell ourselves we’re being selfless, but deep down, there’s often a quiet voice hoping […]
We spend most of our lives chasing a moment that never arrives. From the time we’re old enough to understand language, we’re told to prepare—for school, for exams, for university, for work, for marriage, for retirement. Every step is a prelude to the next. We grow up waiting for life to begin, not realizing it’s […]
It’s strange to think that who we believe ourselves to be might not really be ours. From the moment we’re born, we’re named, categorized, and surrounded by people who reflect back to us who they think we are. Slowly, almost invisibly, we start to believe them. Our sense of “I” is shaped by words, tones, […]
Forgiveness isn’t a one-time decision. It’s a slow, aching process—like pulling out a thorn that’s been buried under the skin for too long. Especially after divorce or separation, forgiveness can feel like the hardest part. Not just forgiving them, but forgiving yourself. I used to think forgiveness meant saying, “It’s okay.” But what happened wasn’t […]
You don’t owe anyone your energy, your time, or your story just because they ask for it.You are allowed to say no—to invitations, to conversations, to family expectations, to anything that doesn’t feel safe, right, or healthy for you. And here’s the powerful part:You can say no without giving a long reason. Without softening it. […]
We often move through life seeing things as separate—people, choices, events, even parts of ourselves. We label and divide, believing that one thing causes another, that everything must be connected by a thread we can trace. But maybe the problem began when we started cutting life into pieces in the first place. The world itself […]
I treat my money like I treat the earth—valuable, limited, and worthy of real respect. Not just because it pays the bills, but because how I handle it says a lot about how I live. I don’t see money as endless or disposable. I see it like soil—something to tend, protect, and use wisely so […]
At our last choir concert, the September one, I learned something strange about noticing. I’d never sung in a choir before, so I went all out—found a tailor, asked for something simple, respectful, choir-like. The result? A long, boxy, shapeless dress that made me look like I’d stepped straight out of an old hymn book. […]
There’s something grounding about remembering that money, like everything else in life, moves in cycles. Sometimes there’s abundance—things flow, doors open, bills get paid with ease. And other times, there’s scarcity—tight months, hard choices, and a sense of holding your breath. But both seasons are part of the rhythm. Just like nature has dry spells […]